Monday, 2 May 2011

Looking for Godly Christian Leaders

The Minimum Credentials to Becoming a Church Leader
  (The Selection Process)

“A good candidate for the office of elder is known by his behaviour (1 Tim 5:24-25), because his behaviour reveals his character, and character is largely what makes an elder.”[1]
Mark Dever & Paul Alexander

Before we learn about the various leadership positions in the church, I want to reflect with you, through this article, about the Christian as an elder (or a member of the board of director of the local church).
Although the same principle applies to all Christians, as well as other kinds of Christian leadership, eldership in the New Testament is one of the most important aspects of Christian leadership, because the elders are called ‘overseers’ or ‘supervisors’ of the ongoing work of the church and its leaders, and the Bible highlights the qualities/credentials a person must display in order to be considered eligible to become an elder.  
In my opinion, this is where the problem starts in many local churches as far as eldership is concerned.
We saw in the previous two chapters that a Christian leader must not only have the desire to be a church leader, but must first of all be a true and committed Christian. Good leaders are needed in any sector of society, but it takes a true Christian, with the gift of leadership and a godly character, to become an elder in the Church of Jesus Christ. In fact, elders should only be elected/appointed as a result of their faith, behaviour and commitment, no matter who they are.
A senior Church of Scotland minister once told me that Church of Scotland ministers should consider themselves very lucky indeed if they have a team of elders of which at least 30% has a real faith in Jesus Christ as the Son of God, a consistent Christian behaviour and a strong commitment to the work of their church (Sunday services, Bible study, home groups, prayer life, etc). That was very sad to hear. 
So I suppose this chapter has the potential both to comfort and encourage, and also to disturb, rebuke and challenge prospective and existing elders. 
 If you are not interested in being challenged about the substance of your Christian faith, the quality of your behaviour and commitment as a potential or existing elder, go no further. Feel free to stop here. No offence will be taken. 

Otherwise, open your heart and mind and read on. God will speak to you.

 Let us go back to the first question: What are the required credentials for anyone who is considering a position of eldership?  It is certainly not my own personal opinions that I will be dealing with here, but what the Bible says about eldership. The model for elders and deacons in the New Testament Church is unequivocally set out by the Apostle Paul. Although not all church leaders will be ordained as elders, we should expect that all Christians follow the same principle of life, especially when it comes to appointing those who will be in a position of authority, along with the minister, over all the other church leaders in their local church.
Read the following text slowly and carefully, thinking about what it is actually saying. I am didactically displaying it differently from what you will find in your Bible. I am not altering anything in the passage, not even the order of the verses. The Bible passage is 1 Timothy 3:1-7. I am only making short comments in brackets.
Here is a trustworthy saying:  If anyone sets his heart on being an  overseer, he  desires  a  noble  task.  Now  the overseer must
be above reproach, (have an approved character as opposed to a disgraceful one)
be the husband of but one wife,
be temperate, (moderate or self-restrained; not extreme in opinion)
be self-controlled, (able to control his feelings in all circumstances)
be respectable, (worthy of respect or esteem due to good character)
be hospitable, (receiving or treating guests or strangers warmly and generously)
be able to teach, (able to help others to understand the basics of the Christian faith – not necessarily a public speaker)
not be given to drunkenness,
not be violent but gentle, (a Christ-like behaviour)
not be quarrelsome, (not inclined to quarrel; to be argumentative or contentious)
not be a lover of money. (a good master of money, generous)
manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?) (not negligent in the task of training and disciplining their children in the Lord’s way)
not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil, (must be experienced and mature in the Christian faith)
also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil's trap. (It is easy to be a ‘good’ Christian on Sunday mornings; the real test is at home, at work and at school)

Is it not interesting that the “above reproach” requirement comes first on Paul’s list? Paul had a very organized and logic mind and it is only reasonable to think that the subsequent requirements are simply an expansion or explanation of what ‘being above reproach’ means. 
In The Leadership Dynamic, Harry L. Reeder III highlights that those requirements are hard to miss.

"They are the foundation texts on formal leadership in the church, some of the most familiar passages in Scripture. They are easy to find. They are easy to understand. And, alas, they also too often ignored."[2]

You don’t wait until you become a church leader in order to start living like that. What the apostle Paul is saying here is that a person should be found displaying those Christian qualities before he or she is even considered for church leadership.
It is also worth highlighting the fact that the new leader must not be a new convert. New converts are spiritually immature and therefore not in a position to nurture others into spiritual maturity yet. Dever and Alexander draw our attention to the fact that “churches rarely grow past the maturity of their leader”.[3] They rightly suggest that,

"The implication is that choosing elders can be either a significant help or a significant hindrance to the maturity and growth of the congregation. Mature, able leaders will model godly behaviour and teach sound doctrine, which will promote congregational health and growth."[4]

They also speak about the results of getting it wrong by choosing ducks to do the work of eagles. 

"Conversely, immature leaders who are less than able to teach will model behavior that may not be above reproach and will and will teach doctrine that may not conform to godliness, both of which will likely put a low cap on the maturity level of the members, because they’re not hearing sound doctrine or seeing it lived out by their leaders."[5]

Commenting on the danger of neglecting the biblical criteria in choosing new church leaders, Reeder III acknowledges that it is,

"With saddening frequency, Christian congregations and church authorities repeatedly choose leaders based on their occupations, personalities, or professional achievements, rather than the biblical qualifications for leadership."[6]

In the same letter to Timothy Paul charges his disciple to be extremely careful not to ordain the wrong type of person to the eldership.

“I charge you, in the sight of God and Christ Jesus and the elect angels, to keep these instructions without partiality, and to do nothing out of favouritism. Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands, and do not share in the sins of others. Keep yourself pure.” 1 Tim. 5:21-22

Commenting on these verses Calvin says,

"The 'laying on of hands' means Ordination: that is, the sign is put for the thing signified; for he forbids him to receive too easily any one that has not been fully tried.”[7] 

The result of neglecting to take the above biblical instructions seriously can be summarized as the following:

"Congregations remain spiritually immature. False doctrine is taught. Biblical truth is neglected. Pastors are dismissed. Churches split apart. Members are distracted, disgruntled, or disheartened. The work of the church grows cold and the opportunity to model and mentor leaders in the church for deployment into the world is squandered."[8]

Does the above sound familiar?

I like asking questions because questions make us stop and think for a moment, and they also help us to examine our own hearts and take some action. So let me ask you some questions.

About Your Church
• Does your church offer regular training sessions for prospective/existing elders?
• Does your church use the above Bible teaching (and others) as a consistent criteria to choose/appoint/develop potential, and also existing leaders?
• How often do the elders and other leaders of your church come together to review their own lives, work and commitment and to see where can they improve and grow?

About The Existing Leaders in Your Church
• Do you clearly see the above credentials in the life of the elders in your church? Read the Bible verses above again, go over the names of each elder (which may include yourself) and try to answer the above question. After you have done that, answer the following four questions: Are you surprised?  Are you shocked?  Are you unsure? Or are you reassured?

About Your Own Life as a Christian Elder
• Have you ever read the above passage (1 Timothy 3:1 - 7), either before or after you have been appointed as a church leader?
• If you have, how often do you stop to reflect on it?
• Have you ever been trained on the subject of eldership?
• How often do you read books on Christian leadership to help you develop in your office?
• Do you feel you have the above credentials to be an elder?
• Do you have the desire to develop those credentials?

The above questions should be answered with all honesty. Maybe you have already been working on it, which is highly commendable. Or maybe you are feeling very uncomfortable right now. Read on!

Your Response
As one reads the above Bible passage, I would suggest that there are only three responses to it:
• The First is one of humbling yourself before God and asking him to help you improve your Christian life, no matter what;
• The Second is one of agreeing with it, but doing very little to improve your Christian life; and
• The Third will be one of complete disregard for what the Bible says about the credentials for becoming an elder in the Church of God.
I would strongly suggest that you can only be considered as a candidate for church eldership by having the first response.
There is a fundamental difference between a person who is cornered by their friends (other elders or the minister) and made an elder by his church and a person who becomes what God has called them to be as a Christian and to do as an elder. You do not develop the credentials to become an elder overnight, over an invitation or through the ordination vows. That is for sure!      
 
Is There More to It? 
I have met and worked with many elders over the past 28 years and I can tell you with joy that most of them were, and have been, a pleasure and a blessing to work with. Unfortunately, this would only be half the truth. I have also worked with very difficult elders who, although claiming to be Christians, did not have the Christian manners to deal with any viewpoints differing from their own, apart from being uncommitted, having virtually no knowledge of the Bible and showing no interest in living a Christ-like lifestyle. 
My prayer has always been that God will help them to want to learn about Jesus and to grow in their faith by committing to a systematic reading of their Bibles and nourishing a life of prayer for themselves and for others. Also, I have always prayed that the unkind and disrespectful elders will have the desire to learn from Jesus’ meekness, and, as a result, learn how to put their own point of view across in a respectful manner, always backing it up with Scripture. No-one likes to be shouted at during a meeting; no-one appreciates being ill-treated for having a different opinion on a certain matter, and no-one would be happy facing ongoing opposition from an elder who is supposed to be a source of support and collaboration. So an elder is expected to be extra careful on those points when working with their fellow leaders.
There must be no excuse or justification for bad manners or lack of commitment. We will say more about that in a very open and honest way in a later article.
These chapters were deliberately written in a certain sequence for a very good reason. This will become apparent as you read on without skipping any point, page or chapter. It is like sitting down to have a meal. You eat things in a certain sequence until you finish it. It is also like going to your doctor: you sit down, tell the doctor what you are feeling, then give time for your doctor to examine you, give the diagnosis of your condition and write the relevant prescription for the improvement of your health.
You must be patient and go through the necessary sequence of things so you can benefit from it.

It is Not to be Taken Lightly
I want to offer you another Bible passage about the qualifications/ credentials required for a person to become an elder (as opposed to being made an elder by their friends). It is by the Apostle Paul; this time he is writing to another person, Titus (Titus 1:5-7). This is what he says (read it slowly and pause for reflection please):

"The reason I left you in Crete was that you might straighten out what was left unfinished and appoint elders in every town, as I directed you. An elder must be blameless, the husband of but one wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.
Since an overseer is entrusted with God's work, he must be 
blameless,
not overbearing, (domineering; dictatorial; haughtily or rudely arrogant)
not quick-tempered, (short-fused; someone who lacks self-control)
not given to drunkenness,
not violent, (either physically, or in words)
not pursuing dishonest gain. (not seeking deceitful ways of making [more] money)

Look up the dictionary for the full meaning of the following important words: reproachable, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able, teach, drunkenness, violent, gentle, quarrelsome, reputation, disgrace, trap, blameless, overbearing, quick-tempered and dishonest.  Take your time.
Author Orlando Saer, commenting on the above Bible passage, draws our attention to the two New Testament priorities, when it comes to choosing somebody to a position of Christian leadership: Practical godliness an doctrinal orthodoxy (or character and conviction).[9] 

Practical Godliness
. Integrity, especially in matters of sex & marriage.
. No shirking of responsibilities in the family arena.
. No high-handedness in approach to others around.
. Calmness and restraint from displays of temper.
. Consistent avoidance of excessive alcohol.
. Gentleness towards others even when provoked.
. A record of scrupulous honesty in all areas of life.
. Using of own material blessings to help others.
. Dedication to those things which please God.
. Proven Capacity for self-control and morality.

Doctrinal Orthodoxy
. Personal and unerring allegiance to the Bible.
. Commitment to instruct others from the Bible.
. Readiness to rebut any distortion of the Bible.[10]

Do both the community in which you live and your church see these qualities in your life?
These qualities are the definitive credentials for eldership and any other leadership position in Christ’s church and are neither optional nor negotiable. One must possess them before being considered for eldership.

I like to see a man proud of the place in which he lives. I like to see a man live so that his place will be
proud of him. Abraham Lincoln

Is your church proud of you, both as a church member and leader?



[1] Mark Dever and Paul Alexander, The Deliberate Church: Building Your Ministry on the Gospel - Crossway Books – (Illinois, 2005) p. 143.
[2] Harry L. Reeder III, with Rod Gragg, The Leadership Dynamic – A Biblical Model for Raising Effective Leaders, Crossway Books (Illinois, 2008) p. 53.
[3] Dever and Alexander, op cit.
[4] Idem
[5] Idem
[6] Harry L. Reeder III. Op cit.
[7] Calvin’s online commentary on 1 Timothy 5:21, 22,
http://www.ccel.org/ccel/calvin/calcom43.iii.vii.vi.html
[8] Harry L. Reeder III. Op cit.
[9] Orlando Saer, Iron Sharpens Iron, Christian Focus Publications (Scotland, 2010) p. 24.
[10] Idem

Tuesday, 19 April 2011

Take Care of What God Cares MOST About


Sermon Preached on Sunday 3rd April 2011 at St Peter’s Free Church - Dundee, Scotland, UK


John 21:15-17 
 Jesus Reinstates Peter
 15 When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”   “Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.”
   Jesus said, Feed my lambs.”
 16 Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
   He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”
   Jesus said, Take care of my sheep.”
 17 The third time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
   Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, “Do you love me?” He said, “Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.
Jesus said, Feed my sheep. 

 "Step up"

Some 13 years ago when we were still living in Edinburgh we became attached to one local Church of Scotland congregation while we learned the language and tried to accommodate the culture before we started serving in the church as a kind of assistant minister, on a volunteer basis.

After about 1 year I started going around the church before the service greeting people and trying to get to know them. I remember on morning, in particular, after a hard week in many ways, as a greeted some people I noticed a grumpy lady sitting on her own.

When I saw her grumpy face I thought to myself; “Oh no! I can’t do grumpy faces today. I had a hard week and need to see only nice people today.”

 As I walked past her pew, I felt strongly prompted to stop, go where she was and speak to her. I did not want to…but I felt as if the Lord Jesus himself was speaking to me: “go and see what is behind that grumpy face; listen to her story”.

I suddenly had a profound compassion on her. I knew she could simply dismiss me like that.

As I approached and stretched my hand out to greet her, she opened a wide beautiful smile, which made my day. As we chatted away I was astounded to hear what she told me next; She said this: “Joe, I have been attending this church for the past two years and you are the first person who ever spoke to me. You do not how much that means to me. Thank you.”

Hers is one of many stories of people who feel left out, ignored, uncared for, unloved and even unwanted amongst us in church.

Someone once told me: Joe it is just the way we are. We are British. We do not talk to people unless we have been properly introduced for three weeks in a row. 

If we knew what 'culture' means we will learn also that it can be changed on purpose. The word “culture” in this sense means: “the behaviors and beliefs characteristic of a particular social, ethnic, or age group”

Now, behaviours are based on beliefs. The Christian faith is based on the belief that God loved us while we were still lost in our sins, that is, while we still ignored or rejected Him.

So the Christian faith should change any local culture in this regard and shape us into people who are warm, accepting and welcoming. We should warmly embrace everyone God sends our way. We must be careful so we do not become the kind of people who make others feel unwelcome or ignored in our own church and community.  

There is a interesting story in the New Testament in the Bible that teaches about attitudes.

If you remember the apostle Peter denied Jesus three times in a row. He refused to acknowledge he knew His Master and best friend in one of the most difficult times in Jesus’ life. Jesus was being arrested on that evening.

This is how it happened (Luke 22:55-62)
Now Peter was sitting out in the courtyard, and a servant girl came to him. “ A servant girl saw him seated there in the firelight. She looked closely at him and said, “This man was with him.”
  But he denied it. “Woman, I don’t know him,” he said.

 A little later someone else saw him and said, “You also are one of them.”

 “Man, I am not!” Peter replied.

 About an hour later another asserted, “Certainly this fellow was with him, for he is a Galilean.”

 Peter replied, “Man, I don’t know what you’re talking about!” Just as he was speaking, the rooster crowed. The Lord turned and looked straight at Peter. Then Peter remembered the word the Lord had spoken to him: “Before the rooster crows today, you will disown me three times.” And he went outside and wept bitterly. . .

  Peter must have felt like being the worst of the worst. In his eyes he must have felt he did not deserve even the smallest expression of care, love and compassion from anyone anymore.

He had done the most despicable thing a man could ever do to his best friend. It would be something like seeing your best friend being beaten up on a Friday night on Perth Road in Dundee and denying to know him or her when the mob turned to you. But just worse…because your best friend is not your God in human form as Jesus revealed himself to be.

 So Jesus had plenty of reason to be upset with Peter and not to want anything to do with him any longer. . .No one would ever have blamed Jesus if He chose to ignore Peter after that.  

But here is where we fail to learn from Jesus’ example. 

Three days after His crucifixion He rose from the dead, defeating the power of death, and conquering victory for all us, He went to see Peter. . .Not to ask for an explanation, nor the get an apology from him. . . But rather to show His incomprehensible forgiveness and welcome Him back. . .

He knew Peter’s heart was broken. He knew Peter was suffering with an unbearable pain in his heart as the result of him disowning Jesus.  He knew Peter was very, very sorry for his actions. We have even reason to believe Peter was depressed and perhaps even suicidal over his actions.

But Jesus came to him and showed to the world up to this very day the culture of His heart, which should shape the culture of your heart and mine tonight.

John 21: 15-19  
When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”
   “Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.” (...)

   Jesus said, “Feed my lambs.”

 Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”

   He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”

   Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.”

 The third time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”

   Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, “Do you love me?” He said, “Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.”

   Jesus said, “Feed my sheep. Very truly I tell you, when you were younger you dressed yourself and went where you wanted; but when you are old you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go.” 19 Jesus said this to indicate the kind of death by which Peter would glorify God. Then he said to him, “Follow me!”

The force of this expression  “Take care of my lambs” has always impressed me.

Note that each command to take care of His sheep came straight after Peter’s answer that he loved Jesus.

Jesus is commissioning Peter to take care of what God’s cares most about: People.

The office of a Shepherd involves NOT merely the feeding of the sheep on grass but the entire leading, guiding, guarding, and folding of the flock.   

Jesus not only showed that He had forgiven Peter but He also showed to those around Peter that the expression of that forgiveness was to entrust Peter with the exciting  responsibility of helping people in their faith.

I have always had a great concern about the way we treat people both amongst and around us. There are a great number of churches getting it badly wrong and I passionately encourage you not be part of that statistic.

I have stated a million times from the first day I gave my life to Jesus, that God’s call upon us has never been and will never be to make any church grow. . .Our call is to help people grow in their faith, in their understanding of Jesus and this we do through works and words. . .in that order. The result may be (and in most cases are) church growth. 

WE have to become more aware that when someone steps into a church either for the first time or the first few weeks there is a mixture of both apprehension and expectation in their hearts.   

Their apprehension has to do with how they will be treated. “Am I going to be welcome”, “are these people warm?” “Are they going to be overnice just in order to get me in?”  “or are they going to show real interest in me, for whom I am with all our doubts and background?” . . .

Every time you see someone new coming through the doors of your church or your house group, remember they may have all those questions and more in their minds. Your job and mine is to warmly and sensitively make them feel right at home. It is not somebody else’s job. It ‘s your job…it is my job.

This “taking care” of them will help them set high expectations for what God can do for them in this new environment.  Remember to keep the culture of Jesus’ heart in the forefront of your actions.

We must learn to be more proactive about it .

When we learn how to do it then,

- If someone comes in with apprehension, we will  feed them with acceptance and assurance.

- If they come in with fear, we will feed them with a warm friendly smile.

- If they come in with a broken heart (as most do), you and I will feed them with a safe non-judgemental environment where they can express their pain and shed their  so long held back tears.

- If they come in with the fear that they might be ignored just as they have already been in many other churches before, there are in for a pleasant surprise, because you can I  will feed them with a firm down to earth welcoming hand shake;

- If they come in with prejudices and preconceptions about Christianity, we will welcome them without prejudice or preconceptions.  

Some of them will even come in expecting the worse, but they over time will learn they can expect the best from us always at any of our meetings whether here or in a home group context.    

 Peter was given the most exciting task ever, which is to take care of what God cares most about.  And again here is where many of us get it wrong. If our actions do not make people experience something of God’s compassion and care for them, nor will our words or even our gatherings on Sundays.

We have only one chance to make a first impression, which is positive and life transforming.

We are living in a planet populated by around 7 billion people according to The Guardian and yet loneliness seems to be one of the worse nightmares of many people who step into a church building on any given Sunday or midweek home groups. 

There is this young mum who once came to see Andrea and I and said they she had stopped attending her local church due to the lack of attention given to her and her child. People only looked at their direction in order to give them “the look” due to her baby making smiling noises. 

Some churches might think that since they are theologically well educated, they don’t need to learn about being socially educated.

We help people most in their faith when we combine words with works; mind with heart; seriousness with kindness; reverence with joy and, good order with lavishing compassion. . .  “Combine” is a key word here.

Another crucial word intrinsically linked with the expression “feed or tend my sheep” is cherish. If we claim, as Peter did, that we love Jesus, we have to learn to express this love  by cherishing/valuing, holding dear those around us. 

Listen to what Peter said later on when he wrote a letter to the Christians who had fled to the provinces of Asia Minor due to persecution.

1 Peter 3:8
 “Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.”

 It means this:  Feel the others’ pain and lift them up by being helpful in some way. Look for opportunities to do good to others whether in church, in the neighborhood, among University mates, wherever. Historian and physician Luke who lived in the 1st century said this:

 Acts 10:38 
  “he(Jesus) went around doing good and healing all who were under the power of the devil, because God was with him."

Is God with you? So start going around doing good to people too.  

If we have the right doctrine or teaching and yet do not care about going around doing good to people we have nothing to make them feel and learn that God loves and cherishes them. 

By giving Peter a second chance Jesus was teaching him how he wanted him to take care of his sheep. We often want second chances but fail even to give people a chance to feel they belong amongst us, that they matter to us; that their poverty is our poverty; their joy is our joy and that their struggles are our struggles.

Galatians 6:9
Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

Roman 12:13
 Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

Roman 12:15, 16
Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position.

I had an elder back in Brazil to whom compassion seemed to be a way of life. He had healing in his smile. If you came brokenhearted to church one Sunday you would be healed almost instantly through his warm sincere and yet calm smile.

His arms seemed to be the very arms of Jesus when he gave you a hug. He was sensitive. He seemed to be always looking for an opportunity to show compassion to others. You never visited our church without experiencing his warmth. Many came to faith through his contagious love for people, which was really a natural expression of his love for Jesus.

But I have also met other Christians who are colder than any harsh winter in Scotland.  

When they open their mouth or when they look around they freeze everything around them. You just don’t want to be around them. 

Although I am a strong believer in apologetic evangelism or in other words initiatives which promote the Christian faith by defending it against atheism attacks, I am a stronger believer yet that a Jesus-like lifestyle is the most powerful defense for the Gospel, if you know what I mean.

Apologetic evangelism without Christ-like lifestyle evangelism is highly unintelligent and counterproductive. Peter in his second letter 2 Peter 1:5-8 passionately teaches that we have to add a few things to our faith in order for it to become visible and helpful to others.   

2 Peter 1:5-8
 Make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge;  and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love. 8 For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

Let me finish by saying this:  Let us start going by warmly welcoming others into our midst. I could give you many suggestions and ideas about it, but let me give you just one tonight.

 I call it being a sharp spotter. It is like if you had a radar to detect when new people came in or when people in need came in, or when people suffering from depression or loneliness or shiness stepped through the church’s doors or home groups seeking after something to sooth their pain or fill the gap in their hearts.

But for this to work you have to practice Sunday after Sunday. Practice makes perfect.

One suggestion is that home groups are well trained through a period of time and each one put in charge of spotting new people, seekers, visitors, agitators or whatever you want to call them each Sunday.

- Each home group or person should organize themselves and devise a sincere strategy to get to know each individual.

1 -This can be by inviting them for a five-a-side, or tennis or coffee or lunch, or movie night or whatever. Start by socializing with them since it is the best way to get to know people and put them at ease. Let them see that Christians are normal people (most Christians)  

2- Keep spotting them each Sunday and invite them to sit with you during the service.

3- Slowly introduce them to the others in the team and repeat step 1 and 2

Once you get to know them you will be able to tell whether they are Christians who just moved nearby and are visiting churches before they make their minds where to worship, or if they are seeking to understand the Christian faith or else. After you have identified their spiritual background you are ready to go to step four.

4- Invite them to join either your home group or be prepared to start a new home group to suit their level of understanding of the Christian faith so their understanding can be further developed.

5- Make sure the whole home group will take part in taking care of them in their  felt-needs, whatever it may be.

6 Spot their strengths and how they can channeled to help more people and the work of the church.

>>>>Jesus is calling us tonight to take care of his sheep. For this to happen you and I'll have to develop a shepherd’s heart and attitude. The reason the sheep recognize the shepherd’s voice is that the shepherd is always in touch, always guiding, speaking, protecting and feeding.

 People first feel God’s love by the way we treat and care for them, before they can understand His love by what we teach them.

The apostle James put it this way:

James 2:14-18
What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.
 But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.”
Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds.”

The Message version of this same verse says this:
 “Dear friends, do you think you'll get anywhere in this if you learn all the right words but never do anything? Does merely talking about faith indicate that a person really has it? For instance, you come upon an old friend dressed in rags and half-starved and say, "Good morning, friend! Be clothed in Christ! Be filled with the Holy Spirit!" and walk off without providing so much as a coat or a cup of soup—where does that get you? Isn't it obvious that God-talk without God-acts is outrageous nonsense?
 I can already hear one of you agreeing by saying, "Sounds good. You take care of the faith department, I'll handle the works department."
 Not so fast. You can no more show me your works apart from your faith than I can show you my faith apart from my works. Faith and works, works and faith, fit together hand in glove.”

   Some years ago: A little boy,
 About 10-years-old, was standing before a shoe store on the
 High Street, barefooted, peering through the window, and shivering
With cold.
 
  

A lady approached the young boy and said,
  'My, but you're in such deep thought staring in that window!'
 


'I was asking God to give me a pair of
 Shoes,'was the boy's reply.
 
  

 The lady took him by the hand, went into
  The store, and asked the clerk to get half a dozen pairs of socks
 For the boy.

 She then asked if he could give her a basin of water
 And a towel. He quickly brought them to her.
 


She took the little fellow to the back
 Part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed
 His little feet, and dried them with the towel.
 
By this time, the clerk had returned with
 The socks... Placing a pair upon the boy's feet, she purchased him
a pair of shoes…


She tied up the remaining pairs of socks
 And gave them to him... She patted him on the head and said, 'No
 Doubt, you will be more comfortable now.'
 
  

As she turned to go, the astonished kid
 Caught her by the hand, and looking up into her face, with tears
 In his eyes, asked her.
 
'Are you God's wife?'
 

Jesus called not only Peter to take care of His sheep. He is calling you too to care of His sheep, lost and found, broken and healed, poor and rich, Dandonian and non-Dandonian.   

The invisible loving God wants to
- embrace people through your welcoming arms,
-    -  cheer the downcast up through your warm smile;
-    - defend the weak through your bold actions;
-    -  express His love to the unloving through your graciousness
-    - Help the poor next door through your compassion;
-     - And through your presence show to the lonely around Dundee that in Jesus the lonely are lonely no more.

Do you love Jesus? …Take care of what He cares about. Less than that you and I will be useless. 

May the Lord have mercy on us and help us to step up. 

Amen